vulnerability is earned

They say; ‘people who are able to wade into vulnerability and discomfort are the real badasses’. I say, ‘it depends’.

Whilst the popular narrative purports vulnerability to be a positive attribute, reality check also tells us it can be negative.

I believe it is neither good, nor bad. It just depends.

To be vulnerable means to expose yourself to possibilities…both good and bad.

…and while this may sometimes be liberating and rewarding, it is not without its attendant dangers.

The key determinant? People, the kind of people you choose to be vulnerable with.

The human nature is quite notorious.

Many humans truly have noble intentions, but they are still influenced by the carnal nature.

You have to understand that nature to know that even though people may mean well, they are still human….warring with a particular type of nature.

Vulnerability in an intimate relationship is a beautiful thing, the true definition of ‘naked and not ashamed.’

However, vulnerability with the wrong people is the true definition of ‘sleeping with the enemy.’

Jesus has a lot to teach us about trust and vulnerability.

There were the 3, the 12, the 72 and then the multitude.

‘….and even though many began to trust in Him, Jesus did not trust them, because He knew human nature. No one needed to tell him what mankind is really like.’ John 2:23-25.

By all means, do allow yourself be vulnerable but pray thee, that ye be very selective of whom thy expose thine self to.

You do not owe anyone vulnerability, it is your prerogative to grant as you deem fit.

For in the quest to be ‘open’, many have been consumed by the adversary.

Discernment is key.

Yep, Jesus can sure teach us a lot about trust and vulnerability.

First Written by Mo’ Omoregee on January 6, 2021