Multi-dating
Ok, so let me start by saying that what I am about to share largely depends on two factors; Some months ago, I was in a gathering (of men and women) and the topic of…
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Self-Awareness is Critical
As I type this, I am in a room listening to men talk about accountability and reasons their previous relationships failed. As I listen to them share, I am really appreciative of their reflection, honesty,…
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There are dreams, and then there is …
Kayode is turning 40 years old next week. As many are wont to do at that age, he has been reflecting over his past years and finds that he has every cause to be super…
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from confusion to purpose
I had a convo with a friend late Thursday evening and we were talking about purpose. He said to me, ‘I have an idea of what God wants me to do in the future, I…
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vulnerability is earned
They say; ‘people who are able to wade into vulnerability and discomfort are the real badasses’. I say, ‘it depends’. Whilst the popular narrative purports vulnerability to be a positive attribute, reality check also tells…
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Mind over Matter
When I think about the intricacies that involve the mind, I am in awe especially because it seems like something particular to an individual yet totally out of grasp. The mind houses our thoughts. It…
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